At the root of love is labor.  Love is hard.  Love is messy. Love is work.  When we labor for our love, love becomes comfortable, safe and joyful.  To have a career you love, fall in love, or love yourself, you have to be willing to do the hardest work of your life.  In the end, love is all that matters.  So join me and dig in, do the work and enjoy the fruits of your labor.